Nesrin Mahmud

There comes a moment in life when you are totally alone: no friends, no acquaintances, no one to talk to freely and share your concerns with. Only you and your thoughts. This stage is essential to invest in your skills, career growth and education, I believe. Consider it as an attention span given from above as a space for your development and level-up . Naturally, you start facing hardships in its all forms as well, because how ever greatness comes with ease, right? Here, it is important that you truly discover and comprehend your true self during this process: who are you? what are your values? what is your mission in this life? what good can you leave people after your death? - These are points to consider.  As you live and go up, and up, and up - slowly going to the top of the ladder - you care less about outer factors, and direct your lantern to the inside. In other words, people's words will not bother you, their opinions will not stop you from committing particular actions, ...

In complex crossroads of life, some occasions - fatal, emotionally heavy, mind-blowing occasions - happen at very unexpected moments for us. When we least expect them to happen. It shakes our courage, takes away desire to live, and makes us lose our mental compass. No clarity forward in mind: only fog.  This is the time to choose:  ~To move forward or be forever stuck in this drama. ~To let yourself overcome the circumstance or blame everything/everyone for what has happened. This is the choice of attitude . Can you change what has already happened? - No. Can you return what was taken away? - No. Can you make time go backwards? - No. The only thing you can do is to change your attitude. Let me give you a real-life example:  Recently, I have discovered that one of my closest friends, whom I have known for almost a decade, has told me the biggest lie ( again: when I least expected it to happen - especially from that person's side ). It was shocking, and it really hurt my he...

My beloved dear reader,   Good part of the day! No matter which part of the world you are in, I do hope that you are fine, happily living in your cozy own world. I am Nesrin Mahmud, amateur writer who has been passionate about writing for a decade, but kept her writings humbly to herself until this point. In this January day, I have experienced the first shock of 2026, and abruptly decided: if not now, when? – welcome to my page!   I thought for a long time about the content and style of my blogposts, but then came to the conclusion that: depending on that very moment. Whatever comes from the deepest part of my part will flow into this page in the form of words. Who knows, maybe one day, I become famous writer with millions of readers!   For the start, I want to share 15 insights from 2025 that changed my life - every other day.   Insight#1: Always listen to your heart. Whatever you feel is correct, because instincts never lie. Not everything is rational: there are ...